You may think that wildly jackhammering her rocks your woman’s world, but if she hasn’t told you already: That ain’t true. There’s actually an art to giving her a mind-blowing orgasm, more than just having a big brush. “trust me,” says Gabrielle Moore, author of The Female Orgasm Revealed. “Combining foreplay, clitoral stimulation, partial penetration, and anal stimulation can literally be like sexual dynamite for women. Her recipe:
Foreplay First Target all of her erogenous zones—especially her neck, nipples, and inner thighs—with your lips, tongue, and fingertips. Remember, this is a marathon not a sprint, so take it slow. “Get her to the point where she’s literally begging. But then hold back. Having sex before reaching that magic moment decreases your chances of giving her an orgasm.”
Go Halfway “Penetrate her slowly but just partially, and then stop for a few seconds. Don’t go in completely for three to five minutes . . . until she begs you even more.”
Encourage Her to Touch—Herself “Take her hand and gently guide it to her clitoris. Clitoral stimulation during sex will significantly boost most women’s chances of reaching an orgasm.”
Use Her Assets The finish line is near. Move on to full penetration, gradually increasing the speed and depth of your thrusts. “As she gets closer and closer to orgasm, try a bit of gentle anal stimulation. It’ll increase the intensity of her orgasm even more.”
