Today’s cougars aren’t passive, but they are popular, thanks to TV shows like Cougar Town. Female cougars always on the hunt for new prey. But not every cougar (a hot woman several years older than you) is Mrs. Robinson seeking a young sexual playmate. Most are on the prowl for a real relationship. If you're looking to date a cougar, be careful. Older women have limited patience for the shenanigans of youth, so stick to these five no-fail rules and you will be dating older women in no time.
5 Secrets to Dating Older Women
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Today’s cougars aren’t passive, but they are popular, thanks to TV shows like Cougar Town. They’re always on the hunt for new prey. But not every female cougar (a hot woman several years older than you) is Mrs. Robinson seeking a young sexual playmate. Most are on the prowl for a real relationship. If you’re looking to date a cougar, be careful. Older women have limited patience for the shenanigans of youth, so stick to these five no-fail rules and you will be dating older women in no time.
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1. Be Assertive
This is not the time to be shy. Be direct and ask her out with confidence. Nothing is sexier than a man who knows what he wants.
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2. Avoid Labels
Don’t make references to her as a “cougar.” Many women still find the term offensive.
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3. Ignore the Age Gap
You’re just stating the obvious, and she’s well aware that she’s older.
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4. Take it Slow
Sure, the sex is hotter than any you’ve had before. But get to know her outside the bedroom, too. Ask her what she likes. Then follow through. She’ll want you as much as you want her.
Today’s cougars aren’t passive, but they are popular, thanks to TV shows like Cougar Town. They’re always on the hunt for new prey. But not every female cougar (a hot woman several years older than you) is Mrs. Robinson seeking a young sexual playmate. Most are on the prowl for a real relationship. If you’re looking to date a cougar, be careful. Older women have limited patience for the shenanigans of youth, so stick to these five no-fail rules and you will be dating older women in no time.
1. Be Assertive
This is not the time to be shy. Be direct and ask her out with confidence. Nothing is sexier than a man who knows what he wants.
2. Avoid Labels
Don’t make references to her as a “cougar.” Many women still find the term offensive.
3. Ignore the Age Gap
You’re just stating the obvious, and she’s well aware that she’s older.
4. Take it Slow
Sure, the sex is hotter than any you’ve had before. But get to know her outside the bedroom, too. Ask her what she likes. Then follow through. She’ll want you as much as you want her.
